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Of course I realize all sites are unique and convert differently, but Id like to hear from others as to an average from the group.
If you wouldn't mind posting your conversion rate from free to paid members Id appreciate it.
In other words to be clear...How many free members does it take to get as paid join for you?
Is expecting 3-4 paid members for every 100 free expecting too much?
THanks
It really depends on your site. If your paid packages are really worth the money, conversion rate will be higher. If you offer paid packages are simply for convenience, then it will obviously lower your conversion rate.
Sure I mentioned I realize that but whats the average? Also do the paid members who do join sign right up or do they try it as free member first and then convert over in the week following free join?
Also how do I limit the features of the free members to have more tease or reason for them to join? right now seems like the free members can private message and contact unlmited people...
IS there a way to limit the free members activities? and to push them towards a paid membership?
There is no average, it depends on your site.
You can customize member group permissions and set some limits in the control panel under "settings - member groups".
Getting members is an art in some ways. A lot depends on your target audience (niche etc) and how much effort you put into promotion, marketing etc, plus the benefits you offer to paid members. Not sure there is an 'average' as so many vldpersonals sites are unique....
What do you think of requiring them to enter credit card to register. Having no free members, but maybe a $2.97 trial for 7 days that automatically upgrades to full paid recurring monthly membership if not canceled.
Do you think this would be good?
That's a deal if your site has over 10 million members. It's a rip off if you have 500 members.
but thats the best way to get signups right?
The best way for people to pay is to have something that they want, supply and demand. 
i have a lot of members and get about 1000 new ones a day right now. I think my site is dope and I have a lot of added on features...I just wondered what others are doing..Obviously I'm no eharmony...YET !
But Im trying ... LOL
That's awesome! But dating sites are dime a dozen, with many offer famous celebrities and expert match making in addition to their enormous user base. So, you have to offer something to your users that's worth paying, going back to the fundamental of supply and demand.
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