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As several members here and also Vlad says: "Forum is a good way to promote your site" ( http://www.vldpersonals.com/forum/viewtopic.php?id=3108 ) but members on our datingsites may not pay attention to a link for our forum - but a "Latest entry on homepage" could motivate members to look into forum, and also write.
I find this very important.
Freja, the following link may interest you for phpbb.
http://sourceforge.net/projects/phpbbfetchall/
I use to use phpbb fetch a few years back, but have not had a chance to implement for phpbb 3.0. When I did use it, it worked well. You may want to give it a try. Be sure to backup before making any changes.
cheers
dan
Thank you 
But nothing happens when I try downloading it...
I'm sure, I can't figure out to use it anyway...
Vldpersonals are most of the time so very easy to figure out how to use, and good members here, can mostly help with thing that seems difficult - so I really hope this can be added to an update (or before)...