Ive been using it about 3 months and I can't believe how feature rich it is.
Its a Dom Perignon software on a beer budget.

I'm so blown away that for $100 I get a site, installed, that looks great and has features like I paid a development team $20-40k for it.
On webmaster boards that I hang out on we talk about the best personals scripts and the other webmasters say that if you want something good then you need to buy a custom script for at least $20k.
Well for $100 I got Vld and it does the job nicely.

I gotten nothing but compliments from members about how easy it is to use and how good it looks. They like the site and tell me that it will go far. And the features are excellent. Message board plugin, multiple videos per member, url watermarks on photos (for a little more), 1 on 1 chat, tell-a-friend built in, guest books, and so much more.

These are things some of my competitors have but they have developers working for them and have to pay big money for them. And I get it all for very very little money and I can have just as many features as they do.

A++ great software.
I bought 2 copies and will buy more when I feel its time to expand.