Hi fellows,
I have this dillema.
Should I filter email and msn contacts in the messages?

If I do:
- the members find other ways the express the email.
- the members get a negative feeling about the site
- I cannot have an extra field with msn adres or other email contact or for camcheck, because it is filtered also (where's the code to change this?)

If I don't:
- members go away to soon or start chatting on msn
- members take abuse and start posting their email everywhere that they can to get contacts (they think this works :-D and I don't want a quick contacts community

Of course I want them to stay as long on my site, that's my only reason why.
If they use the online chat and messaging, I have more online visitors.

What's your opinion?