Just some random thoughts, take them as you will...

1. your domain is freshmetropolis but your logo says WHAT LIES BENEATH! Its confusing to the average user.

2. I would take out the pink, I dont think straight guys will like pink, but thats just my thoughts.
Id pick a more neutral color.

3. I would take out the hearts on peoples photos and put your logo there instead.

4. Is this an adult site? I would choose a name thats more titilating like Nude metropolis.com (its available and easy to remember) or nastymetropolis.com (its available).

5. If you can take out the word metropolis and use something shorts that would be good as youll get many mispellings. How about City? Hut? Space? shorter words and easy to remember

6. Id make the site a little darker and more "naughty" feeling.

7. Lot of photos of guys on your front page, id switch it to mostly women.
also take out he photos of cartoons and tital waves, it makes your site look transient and not serious.
And admin it better.
https://www.freshmetropolis.com/wowgoldbuy/ this is obviously a fake account that will spam people to buy gold on World of Warcraft. It shouldnt be on your site nevermind the front page.

8. Dont say "Hottest boys", most of your customers will be guys looking for girls, so talk about how easy it is to meet women on your site. Dont mention your male members.

I run a gay site so I dont know anything about straight sites, but the successful straight dating sites put all hot women on the cover, no or few guys. Just like the AFF does in the banner you have on the site.

9. Your blog post "We've officially signed up for new SEO services
Fresh Metropolis Network has signed a new deal with a SEO Company in order to help bring new members to our site and yes its working,"

Id take that out. Your customers cant relate, don't know what youre talking about, dont care about how youre building your business.
They just want you to entertain them, they dont want to know about your seo. To talk about that I feel makes the site look like its not run by professionals. Id instead talk about how the site is growing, but you dont need to say why.
thats a discussion for webmasters, not your customers.

This blog is perfect "https://www.freshmetropolis.com/member/ … on-giving/"
This info is something your members can use and it relates to them and entertains them.
Info about Facebook aps going bad arent going to help you I dont think.

my 0.02

First i want to say thank you to mrmax for taking the time to go through this stuff. i like a lot of your ideas i will work on it.

Thank you